{"id":269,"date":"2010-05-11T11:17:07","date_gmt":"2010-05-11T10:17:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/?p=269"},"modified":"2010-07-08T16:45:20","modified_gmt":"2010-07-08T15:45:20","slug":"dutch-muslim-women-striving-to-integrate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/?p=269","title":{"rendered":"Dutch Muslim women striving to integrate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>At a time when the headscarf is a hot issue in Europe, it comes as something of a shock to meet Fatima Elatik.<\/strong><!--more--><br \/>\nThis feisty 36-year-old &#8211; who combines her headscarf with bright red lipstick &#8211; is mayor of Zeeburg, a large multicultural district of Amsterdam.<br \/>\nShe is the first Dutch-Moroccan woman to become a district mayor &#8211; quite an achievement for a woman whose mother arrived in the Netherlands 40 years ago, unable to read or write.<br \/>\n&#8220;My mum first held a pen to write her own name once she was 60,&#8221; Fatima recalls.<br \/>\n&#8220;And now she sits next to me when I read the newspaper, reading the words with me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Empowerment<\/strong><br \/>\nA short walk from the mayor&#8217;s office, I find out what the Dutch authorities are doing to help migrant women adapt to life in a modern, secular society.<br \/>\nMarion Huisinga runs courses teaching immigrant women basic skills.<br \/>\nOn the day of my visit, some 20 women, most of Moroccan origin, are learning to speak, read and write in Dutch.<br \/>\nThe youngest is in her 20s and has brought her new-born baby along in a pram. The oldest, Rahma, is 74 &#8211; and one of Ms Huisinga&#8217;s star pupils.<br \/>\nMs Huisinga has to win the trust not only of the women but of their husbands. Some are reluctant at first, she says, but they usually come round.<br \/>\nThe courses are about much more than language. Ms Huisinga takes the women to the beach or the zoo, or one of the city&#8217;s famous museums.<br \/>\nFor many of them, getting out of the house is itself an achievement.<br \/>\nWayward sons<br \/>\nAs they talk and sip Moroccan tea, the women seem relaxed. But their lives are often hard.<br \/>\nOne of them, Zara, is divorced and has to look after four boys on her own.<br \/>\nMothers worry that, out on the street, their sons may get drawn into crime, drugs or extremism.<\/p>\n<p>Young Muslim men have been the focus of concern here since 2004, when a 26-year-old Dutch-Moroccan, Mohammed Bouyeri, stabbed to death the controversial film-maker Theo Van Gogh.<br \/>\nI had visited Amsterdam in the aftermath of the killing, when young Muslim males were under a cloud of suspicion.<br \/>\nIt was a bad time to be Dutch-Moroccan. A traditionally liberal society was polarised and ill at ease.<br \/>\nYoung Muslim men told me they were routinely turned away at discotheques.<br \/>\nThe problem has not gone away. But now a Dutch-Moroccan hip-hop artist, Casablanca Connect, has produced a video called &#8220;Members Only&#8221; to highlight the issue.<br \/>\nRather than being made to feel worthless, he told me, young Dutch-Moroccan men need to be encouraged to feel they really belong in Dutch society.<\/p>\n<p>That is not easy when the anti-immigrant Freedom Party &#8211; led by Geert Wilders, an outspoken critic of Islam &#8211; is gaining an ever bigger following.<br \/>\nMr Wilders wants the authorities to halt all immigration from Muslim countries.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Coping with change<\/strong><br \/>\nDutch Islam has many faces. I visited a progressive mosque, whose administrator is a 24-year-old woman.<br \/>\nAnd I tried &#8211; and failed &#8211; to visit an imam associated with the conservative form of Islam known as Salafism.<br \/>\nThe imam &#8211; accused in the Dutch press of promoting intolerance &#8211; agreed to see me, and then changed his mind.<br \/>\nThis is a community in the throes of change &#8211; yet still in many respects traditional and patriarchal.<br \/>\nSomeone who has to deal with the social problems of male-dominated families is Samira Bouchibti &#8211; one of four Dutch-Moroccan members of parliament and Labour Party spokeswoman on youth and family issues.<br \/>\nShe is concerned about forced marriage, which still occurs despite efforts to outlaw it.<br \/>\nPart of Ms Bouchibti&#8217;s brief is gay rights &#8211; something many Muslims would be unwilling to take on.<br \/>\nI ask if there is any tension between her faith and her commitment to equal rights for gays.<br \/>\n&#8220;No, never,&#8221; she replies, &#8220;because my God loves all the people &#8211; gay, black, white, religious, not religious. My God loves everybody.&#8221;<br \/>\nIt is a very enlightened, very Dutch view &#8211; even if conservative Muslims would take issue with it.<br \/>\nI left Amsterdam feeling young Muslim women may be coping with the challenges of modern life rather better than the young men.<br \/>\nThe girls are seizing their chances, says district mayor Fatima Elatik, whereas the boys have a tough time dealing with Dutch society.<br \/>\nThey find it hard to get jobs and to be accepted.<br \/>\n&#8220;It&#8217;s easier to be named Fatima,&#8221; as she puts it, &#8220;than to be named Mohammed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>By Roger Hardy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At a time when the headscarf is a hot issue in Europe, it comes as something of a shock to meet Fatima Elatik.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-269","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/269","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=269"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/269\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":300,"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/269\/revisions\/300"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=269"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=269"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mcccharity.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}